For information about our blackBOOTS private events, please use the form on this page. 


We will always need your full name as it appears on your ID in all email correspondence, in order to attend private parties. Sorry, no anonymous attendees permitted. Your name and identity is for internal security/administration purposes only and will never be shared with others, kept in strict confidence. You must bring ID to all blackBOOTS events. You are asked to provide the name of a sponsor from a current blackBOOTS member or trusted community member for everyone's safety, privacy and security. We will normally will be able to contact you within 24 hours. 

Thank you! 



In order to attend a blackBOOTS private event at the clubhouse, you will need a sponsor or already have a clubhouse card. If you don't know what that means, please read:



What is a sponsor?

A sponsor is someone that will take responsibility for your actions and behaviour at our private events. We ask that sponsors only vouch for people that they actually have met, know and trust. Sponsoring someone that causes problems or breaks rules can lead to the sponsor not being able to bring or sponsor guests or even removal from invite lists for our events. Please sponsor only those that you know and trust.  


Why do I need a sponsor?

We do our best to make sure our private events are safe spaces, free of illegal drugs, registered sex offenders, consent violators, drama and other potential trouble. We ask for sponsors for new people in order to help insure the spaces remain safer for everyone. 

How do I find a sponsor?

Since a sponsor must know you personally, you'll need to get out from behind your computer screens and smartphones and connect with people in person. If you know people in the local gay community, you can ask people if they are familiar with blackBOOTS and take it from there. If you don't know who to ask, you can come to our public events such as Leather Church or CODE nights. These are bar events, open to everyone and hosted by blackBOOTS at the Sun Trapp bar in downtown Salt Lake City. You can check out other BDSM and kink community groups and events too, as many people that attend those events will have access to sponsorship for a cross section of private events for many groups including blackBOOTS. FetLife and beehivekink.com are good places to find out about those options. Recon is another option.